The simple 4 questions and the turnaround do not seem to let me down, ever. Any time I’m slightly annoyed (thinking - “my son should sleep now”) or experiencing deep hurt (thinking “he still doesn’t accept me”) – the 4 questions seem to be there for me.
I met Byron Katie in Copenhagen and it took a while to register what happened in her company: Presence. I have since many times experienced that peace by myself, to the point of not being scared of my discomfort or “bad” temper. Amazing. Inquiry is amazing, simple. I invite you into it. I and many others are available for you. It is working so much better than my “old-time religion”: low level almost constant pain or discomfort with occasional outburst of deep hurt, combined with a tendency to walk away from anyone close.